How One Mother Lost Her Son To A Domestic Abuser After A Series Of Police And Social Worker Failures

In this episode, Ruth discusses the challenges she faced living with her abuser and recounts her attempts to seek help, only to be met with inadequate responses from the police. After leaving her abuser and enduring years of constant threats and harassment, she describes how her son was coerced by his father and handed over by local authorities, despite an existing court order restricting the father’s access. Ruth emphasizes the systemic failures and lack of support from social workers and the police, despite her efforts to document and report abuses.

00:00 Introduction and Podcast Purpose
01:25 Ruth’s Story: The Beginning
02:00 Living with Abuse: Daily Struggles
04:08 System Failures and Legal Battles
07:05 Breaking Free and Continued Harassment
10:46 Custody Battles and Social Services
13:43 Current Situation and Ongoing Struggles
21:29 Ruth’s Advocacy and Systemic Issues
29:11 External Investigation Process
30:27 Stage Three: Facing the Panel
31:28 The Complaint Process Challenges
33:22 Seeking Answers and Explanations
34:18 The Impact of Unresolved Issues
36:57 The Role of Evidence and Documentation
41:34 Proposed Solutions for Victim Safety
48:33 The Need for Systemic Change
55:07 Final Thoughts and Future Steps

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